Best Stepmoms In Movies

Key Takeaways

• Step-mothers in movies can be portrayed as loving, fun, and positive figures, debunking stereotypes.
• Characters like Ellie from
  Dawn of the Planet of the Apes
  show the importance of family support in challenging times.
• Films like
  Elf
  portray step-moms as accepting and heartwarming figures.

The aspect of family is often regarded as an important trope in film. From the space operas of Star Wars to the royal kingdoms of Disney princess movies, family is ever-present in storytelling. Films teach a message, good or bad, and one great lesson that is often taught from films is that family does not have to be related by bloodline.

There are some great movies out there in which stepmothers are presented as loving, fun, and people that audiences would want as tropes for their mother. Some are as fun as the Minions. It’s great to see a representation of stepmothers in films, especially in a positive light rather than as the evil and wicked depictions that have been seen in previous entries.

Updated October 13th, 2024, by Blaise Santi: It can be difficult to find positive maternal role models in films, especially given the frequency of the evil step-mother trope. However, there are plenty more stepmom characters that we’ve discovered who break conventions and showcase positive relationships with their step-children. The two latest additions to this list encompass two very different kinds of step-mothers: the naturally caring type, and the ones that have a long way to go to learn to be great maternal figures, even if they’re trying their best. Either way, they make for some of the best and most loving movie stepmoms out there.

20 Ellie – Dawn Of The Planet Of The Apes

One Of The Few Humans Who Makes Peace With The Apes

It’s not easy keeping a family together in an apocalyptic scenario, but Dawn of the Planet of the Apes features a surprising exception in Ellie, played by Keri Russell. The wife of Jason Clarke’s Malcolm, Ellie is a very kind presence in the life of her stepson Alexander, played by Kodi Smit-McPhee. The two are instrumental in helping humankind bond with the apes.

Despite being a step-mom, Ellie’s maternal instincts are on full display in the film. There’s obvious tension between the humans and apes, but trust is solidified after Ellie rescues Caesar’s wife, Cornelia, and later helps nurse a wounded Caesar back to health. Although there’s plenty of war to come for the apes, because of Ellie, Malcom’s family is protected.

19 Delia Deetz – Beetlejuice

She Has A Lot Of Room To Grow As A Step-Mom

Catherine O’Hara is one of the most iconic comedic performers of all time, and that’s no more apparent than her iconic role as Delia Deetz in Tim Burton’s Beetlejuice (as well as the recent sequel Beetlejuice Beetlejuice). However, early on in the film, Delia seems to be a nuisance to not just the ghostly Maitlands, but to her step-daughter Lydia, played by Winona Ryder.

Thankfully, Delia’s not Lydia’s biggest problem in the film. By the end, the Deetzes and Maitlands have learned how to cohabitate together and exorcise Betelgeuse from their lives. In Beetlejuice Beetlejuice, it’s shown that Delia and Lydia’s relationship has remained intact well into Lydia’s adulthood, despite their multiple brushes with the afterlife.

18 Natsuko – The Boy And The Heron

Miyazaki’s Latest Film Is All About Surrogate Mothers

Hayao Miyazaki’s latest film, The Boy and the Heron, dives deep into the complicated relationship between a stepmother and her reluctant step-child. After Mahito’s mother dies, his father remarries one of her sisters, Natsuko, and moves the family to the countryside, where he struggles to adapt to his new life and acts coldly towards his new stepmother.

However, when Natsuko goes missing, Mahito goes on a treacherous journey into a fantastical world to find her, lured by a talking grey heron. By the end of the journey, Mahito learns to accept Natsuko as his new mom and is rewarded for it with a step-sibling and a happy ending.

17 Emily Hobbs – Elf

It’s Not Easy To Accept An Adult Elf Into Your Home

In the real world, most wives wouldn’t be so happy to discover their husband has an adult son who spent his entire life growing up in Santa’s workshop. However, Mary Steenburgen’s Emily in Elf is not like most women. While Buddy’s father, Walter, is apprehensive about “adopting” this fully-grown man who loves candy, Emily warmly welcomes Buddy into the family.

While Emily is assuming that Buddy has some mental deficiencies going on, and wasn’t actually raised by Santa, she nevertheless quickly takes to his way of life, much to Walter’s chagrin. For a movie all about someone injecting Christmas spirit into people who desperately need it, it’s heartwarming that Emily is the first person to accept Buddy’s joyfulness.

16 Lucy Wilde – Despicable Me 2

A Perfect Match For Illumination’s Iconic Supervillain

The first Despicable Me film surprised audiences by being a heartwarming story about a reluctant father to three adopted girls. However, Despicable Me 2 upped the ante by pairing Gru with Lucy, an agent for the Anti-Villain League who recruits him for a top-secret mission, but Gru slowly begins to fall for her.

Future films in the franchise show how well Lucy has adjusted to becoming the stepmother to Gru’s girls, while also teaming up with Gru on the side to stop supervillains. However, in the upcoming Despicable Me 4, it seems the one thing Lucy can’t do is give Gru a son who isn’t hell-bent on tormenting her husband.

15 Honey Hatter – Howl’s Moving Castle

The Matriarch Of The Hat-Making Dynasty

Howl’s Moving Castle is one of Ghibli’s most enchanting movies and its story centers around Sophie Hatter, a young woman who, after being cursed by a witch into appearing elderly, embarks on a journey and ends up in the moving castle of the mysterious wizard Howl, who she falls for.

Even though Honey Hatter is a minor character, she still plays an important role in Sophie’s life and makes a big impact on her life. She’s a warm person who deeply cares for her stepdaughter despite making some bad decisions. While their world is filled with unpredictability, Honey tries to navigate it to the best of her abilities while also supporting her loved ones. Movie lovers of all ages can enjoy a touching story, great characters, as well as some of the most beautiful Ghibli songs.

14 Eleanor Little – Stuart Little

The Kind Of Parent Every Kid, Or Mouse, Wishes They Had

Stuart Little is one of the most delightful family films from the 90s with a heartwarming story about blended families, acceptance, and love. It’s set in New York City and its story follows the life of the Little family who adopts a small mouse named Stuart.

There are many characters who are trying to guide the young Stuart through his new life but Eleanor Little, his new stepmom, also gives him love and support. Her nurturing nature towards both Stuart and George showcases how family bonds extend beyond biology. Stuart Little is a great choice for those who are looking for fun kids’ movies filled with adventure and humor.

13 Leigh Anne Tuohy – The Blind Side

Someone Who Sees Greatness In A Promising Young Man

The Blind Side is one of the most acclaimed sports films with a moving narrative that explores powerful themes including compassion, family, and resilience. At the heart of this movie is Leigh Anne Tuohy, a fierce and devoted mother, who encounters Michael Oher, a young man with a tumultuous past and a promising future in football. However, Leigh Anne brings Michael into her family’s home without hesitation.

Thanks to Leigh Anne movie fans can meet one of the most loving stepmoms. Through their journey together, the movie shows that family isn’t just born out of blood relations, but from boundless love and understanding.

12 Linda – Natural Selection

An Underrated Pick But A Heartwarming Story

Linda is a lonely housewife when she suddenly finds out that her dying husband has an estranged 23-year-old illegitimate son. She soon decides that she should embark on a journey to reunite father and son. Linda eventually builds a loving relationship with her new stepson.

During their adventures, the two experience together all kinds of hilarious and heartbreaking moments that help them bond and understand each other and their past better. Natural Selection is a great choice for viewers who are looking for great drama movies with bittersweet stories about stepmoms and sons, as well as about the importance of family and forgiveness.

11 Amanda Woods – The Holiday

Never Has A Rom-Com Romance Been So Picturesque

Amanda Woods is one of the heartbroken ladies of The Holiday movie who decides to have a fun and relaxing vacation in a picturesque village in England. However, she soon falls in love with the local, charming man, played by Jude Law, who has two lovely daughters.

Despite not having kids on her own, she builds a loving relationship with the girls in a short time. Amanda and Graham’s love story is a touching and inspirational story about widowhood, being a new stepmom, and finding love after heartbreak. The Holiday is one of the best stepmom movies with romance and plenty of hilarious moments.

10 Joanna Stayton – Overboard

A Step-Mother So Good, Kurt Russell Married Her For Real

Overboard is one of the funniest Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell movies about finding love in unlikely places. While Joanna Stayton becomes a stepmom to four little kids in an unconventional way eventually it turns out to be the best thing that happened in her life.

Overboard‘s story follows Joanna’s life after the cruel heiress suffers amnesia because of a yacht accident. Since she can’t remember a thing, Dean the widowed carpenter decides to teach her a lesson and introduces the spoiled woman to regular life by pretending that she’s his wife. Overboard is the funniest stepmom movie with a touching and laugh-out-loud funny story.

9 Maria Von Trapp – The Sound Of Music

It’s Not Easy To Manage Seven Singing Children

Maria von Trapp is the cinema world’s most iconic stepmom who became a nanny, and eventually a stepmom, to the seven children of George von Trapp. She’s also one of the most loving and fun stepmoms who genuinely cared about the kids and their well-being from the start, inspired by the real-life history of the Trapp Family Singers.

Maria is also one of the most inspirational stepmoms in movies who always puts the family’s needs above her own. The Sound of Music is a must-watch for movie lovers who are interested in the best stepmom movies. This classic also has a heartwarming story and is filled with positive and empowering messages and has a beautiful love story.

8 Brenda MacGuff – Juno

Few Mothers Handle A Pregnant Daughter As Well As Her

As the stepmother to the protagonist, Juno, Brenda is an adorably sweet and supportive stepmother. She may appear a little odd at first, as she has an extreme fondness and admiration for dogs. She spends her time collecting pictures of them. It turns out, it’s because she loves dogs, but has never gotten one, as she knew Juno was allergic.

Bren helps Juno to stay healthy during her pregnancy and does her best to keep her comfortable. Bren stays alongside Juno during the birth of her child. Brenda is a character that won’t be causing jump scares. She’s entirely sweet and loving, and a stepmom that all stepkids deserve.

7 Celeste Martin – My Stepmother Is An Alien

If Only All Aliens Looked Like Kim Basinger

This 1988 sci-fi comedy had Kim Basinger play Celeste, an extraterrestrial woman who receives orders to venture to Earth. Her secret mission involves finding the widow, Steven Mills, a scientist who has mistakenly disrupted Celeste’s planet’s gravity.

Mills is a single father, raising his daughter, Jessie. Celeste’s addition is played for laughs, with her odd inexperience with Earth culture. She struggles with concepts like cooking and trying to kiss for the first time. Celeste’s powers are revealed when she saves Jessie from being hit by a car. The fact that she exposed herself as an alien for a daughter that is not biologically hers, shows her great she is as a mom.

6 Nancy Huff – Step Brothers

Mary Steenburgen’s Less Kid-Friendly Step-Mother Role

When Nancy marries Robert Doback, they are pleased to find out that both of them have a middle-aged son who still lives at home with them. When the two marry and move in together, hilarity ensues with the chemistry of John C. Reilly and Will Ferrell at the front of this comedy flick.

Nancy is entirely supportive of her stepson, Dale, in his ambitions and antagonistic behavior towards her son, Brennan. She tries to help them get along and stop them from hurting each other on more than one occasion. She’s a very supportive and friendly mother, even when she and Robert divorce.

5 Lauren Reynolds – Blended

A Vacation From Hell Brings Two Families Together

After a divorce, Lauren Reynolds decides it’s time to hit the dating scene again. After a terrible blind date with a widower, Jim Friedman at Hooters, both agree in separate discussions that things could have been better. They run into each other again and soon find themselves stranded in a romantic suite at a vacation resort.

Jim bonds well with Lauren’s children, as does Lauren with Jim’s. Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler are a great duo in this romantic comedy, and Barrymore shows a great motherly side to Sandler’s fictional children in this movie.

4 Sarah Connor – Terminator: Dark Fate

An Unexpected Turn Of Events For Sci-Fi’s Best Leading Lady

After her son, John Connor, is killed by a Terminator in a last-ditch effort, the fate of the future is forever changed. But as Terminator: Dark Fate explains, the future will always be dark. Without humanity’s last hope, Sarah Connor fears that all is doomed. She is still grieving, and vengeful of the loss of her son. Until, she saves a young girl, Dani Ramos.

This girl’s fate is critical to the survival of the human race. The film sees Sarah Connor teaming with an augmented human from the future, to protect Dani Ramos, and ensure that there’s a bright fate out there for humanity. Connor helps to teach Ramos a few things and becomes somewhat motherly.

3 Isabel Kelly – Stepmom

Rarely Do Mothers Form A Connection With Step-Mothers

After Isabel gets engaged to Luke, a divorcee, she tries her best to get along with his children, despite not wanting them in the first place. It’s entirely new ground for her, but she is optimistic that she can make things work. Meanwhile, Luke’s ex-wife, Jackie, loathes his new fiancée.

When Jackie is diagnosed with cancer, her tune begins to change, and she accepts that Isabel will be a great mom when she is gone. It’s a very emotional film, and Isabel does a great job of learning to become a mother. One that Jackie happily accepts for her children with her last few days.

2 Missy – Bill And Ted’s Excellent Adventure

Perhaps Bill And Ted Should’ve Visited Oedipus For Advice

As a senior in high school when Bill and Ted were first-year students, Missy is only 3 to 4 years older than the two boys. She marries Bill’s father prior to the first film, divorces, and then marries Ted’s father prior to the sequel. Therefore, Missy has been the stepmother to both Bill and Ted in the iconic time-travel franchise.

As a person, Missy is generally very sweet. She’s friendly and supportive of Bill and Ted’s wild and comedic endeavors, whatever they may be. She is also blissfully unaware of her beauty, and the frustration it causes for the two boys, as well as the awkwardness of various marriages.

1 Beru Whitesun Lars – Star Wars

Obi-Wan Kenobi Showcases Luke’s Badass Aunt

Beru is one of Star Wars‘ best parents. She is more of an adoptive mother to Luke Skywalker than she is an aunt or a stepmother. She is married to Owen Lars, the stepbrother to Anakin Skywalker, and the Jedi Knight who fell to the Dark Side and became Darth Vader. Beru helped to raise Luke on the Lars moisture farm on Tatooine. After her death, Luke left his homeworld and joined the Rebel Alliance to Restore the Republic.

Beru is kind and supportive of Luke. She even brings up to Owen multiple times that he cannot stay on the farm forever, and needs to find his destiny. Beru and Owen both know the importance of the boy, as he is the son of The Chosen One. She exhibits a strong desire to protect Luke, as seen when she uses a blaster to defend the boy from Reva, in Obi-Wan Kenobi.